4. HE’S TEXTING A LOT WHEN HE’S WITH YOU.
This is a big one. He can barely respond to your “How’s your day?” text, but here he is at the bar, texting up a storm. The first time, you can assume it’s a family/friend/work emergency and ask if everything’s okay. If he says nothing critical is going on and continues to text in your presence, it’s not even worth figuring out if he’s seeing other people.
5. IN GENERAL, HE’S DISTRACTED WHEN HE’S WITH YOU.
He may not have his face buried in his phone, but you can probably tell that he’s distant. He may be not contributing too much to the conversation or he’s barely even making eye contact. If he’s not engaged in spending time with you, his mind is somewhere else. Feel free to ask what’s up, but you may not like the answer.
6. HE BLATANTLY CHECKS OUT OTHER WOMEN IN PUBLIC.
Like, he’s not even trying to be subtle about it. He just physically turns around to watch that waitress walk away. That’s just not just disrespectful, it’s a huge red flag that he’s interested in (and most likely is) pursuing other women.
7. HE’S ALWAYS IN A RUSH AND DOESN’T HAVE MUCH TIME TO HANG.
You’ve been looking forward to dinner all week, but here he is ordering as soon as he gets a menu, hurrying to eat his food and refusing dessert. He could just be a fast eater… or he could be trying to get somewhere else. Another date, perhaps?